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Ask Amy: Husband wants to relocate, after death

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

Dear Amy: My husband has lived in the Pacific Northwest since 1966. That’s 57 years! We’ve been married for 25 years.On a recent trip to Kansas, my husband’s birth state, he learned that the family cemetery plot has room for one more person, so now he wants his remains buried next to his paternal grandparents and uncles.These people have been deceased now for decades. I never met any of them.There is no room for me in this family plot in Kansas, although there are plots available in another section of the cemetery.I am not interested in being buried in a state I’ve never lived in.I am perturbed that my husband prefers to be buried with these relatives instead of near me, in the place where our five kids were raised, and where his own parents are buried.Rationally I know that my annoyance is silly since, after I’m dead, I won’t know where I was buried. But jeez, there is a cemetery six miles from our house and I guess I will be cremated and interred there by myself.Am I being unreaso...

Disclosure issues make buyers want to know about their rights and protections

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

Question: We are first-time homebuyers riding high from finally closing on our place. But upon reviewing the seller’s disclosures, some glaring inconsistencies have us second-guessing our decision.Right away, the first page did not mesh with what we were told — items marked “included” were previously disclosed as broken by the seller’s agent. And a bold “no” next to neighborhood noise? It may be technically accurate by the letter of the law, but conveniently ignores the high school’s adjacent stadium.We understand “as-is.” But these discrepancies feel sneaky rather than transparent. Now we are left worrying: What else is amiss that could ambush us later? Are we being naive first-timers or were essential details omitted?As new homeowners who are ecstatic to start this chapter, we also feel exposed. Is there any recourse when disclosures seem dubious? Or is this a classic case of buyer’s remorse revealing our naiveté? We would appreciate advice on homebuyer rights and protections afte...

Greene: GOP, South lost the Civil War, right to own slaves. Get over it

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

Cross her off the list.Just when Republican presidential candidate Nikki Haley was beginning to look like a viable alternative to You-Know-Who, the South Carolina contender tried to explain the Civil War without using the word “slavery.”That’s like trying to explain the Super Bowl without talking about football.I get that she comes from one of the states that lost the war, but other southerners — Lyndon Johnson, Jimmy Carter, Bill Clinton — managed to get over the defeat, and find their way to the White House.But not Haley. When a voter in New Hampshire — the site of the first-in-the-nation presidential primary — asked her what caused the Civil War, the former governor of the state where the war’s first shots were fired in 1861 blamed government interference.“It was basically how government was going to run, the freedoms, and what people could and couldn’t do,” Haley said at a town hall event.“I think it always comes down to the role of government and what th...

Horoscopes Jan. 6, 2024: Kate McKinnon, use intelligence and charm

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Kate McKinnon, 40; Julie Chen, 54; Gabrielle Reece, 54; Rowan Atkinson, 69.Happy Birthday: Mosey your way into what you want to accomplish with thought and wisdom. Map out your course of action and alter what’s necessary to get things flowing in a direction that makes you happy. Don’t let outside interference cost you. Keep your secrets unknown, and protect against anyone infringing on your safety, security or long-term goals. Use intelligence and charm to protect your interests. Your numbers are 5, 16, 24, 31, 33, 39, 44.ARIES (March 21-April 19): Think matters through and act accordingly. You can assess and change your path, but first, you must recognize what isn’t working for you anymore. Nothing is out of reach if you mastermind your way to your goal. Don’t give anyone the chance to interfere. 3 starsTAURUS (April 20-May 20): Lead the way, and you’ll find victory. Don’t hesitate to implement change and push for wh...

Drones From Company That “Strongly Opposes” Military Use Marketed With Bombs Attached

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

A forthcoming drone made by Autel, a Chinese electronics manufacturer and drone-maker, is being marketed using images of the unmanned aerial vehicle carrying a payload of what appears to be explosive shells. The images were discovered just two months after the company condemned the military use of its flying robots.Two separate online retail preorder listings for the $52,000 Autel Titan drone, with a cargo capacity of 22 pounds and an hour of flight time, advertised a surprising feature: the ability to carry (and presumably fire) weapons.In response to concerns from China-hawk lawmakers in the U.S. over Autel’s alleged connections to the Chinese government and its “potentially supporting Russia’s ongoing invasion of Ukraine,” according to a congressional inquiry into the firm, Autel issued a public statement disowning battlefield use of its drones: “Autel Robotics strongly opposes the use of drone products for military purposes or any other activities that infringe upon human rights...

Thousands of mourners in Islamabad attend funeral for Pakistani cleric gunned down in broad daylight

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

ISLAMABAD (AP) — Thousands of mourners attended a funeral Saturday for a Pakistani Sunni Muslim cleric gunned down in broad daylight on the outskirts of the capital, Islamabad, police and and a spokesman for the cleric’s organization said.The funeral of Masoodur Rehman Usmani was held a day after unidentified gunmen shot and killed him and wounded his driver in the neighborhood of Ghauri town, according to a statement issued by the Islamabad police.No one claimed responsibility for the attack, which is a rare occurrence near Islamabad. Police said they were using closed-circuit TV footage to track down the attackers, and vowed that they would be arrested and brought to justice.Authorities in Islamabad have stepped up security by deploying additional police and some embassies were advising their nationals to avoid visiting the area where the funeral for Usmani was to be held.Usmani was a deputy secretary at his Sunni Ulema Council, which emerged after Pakistan outlawed the Sipa...

Anthony Joshua to fight MMA star Francis Ngannou in Saudi Arabia

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

LONDON (AP) — Former heavyweight champion Anthony Joshua’s next fight will be against MMA star Francis Ngannou in Saudi Arabia, promotors have announced.Ngannou has only boxed once professionally, when he knocked down Tyson Fury before losing in a split-decision to the reigning WBC heavyweight champion in late October.A date for the Riyadh fight wasn’t announced but it looks likely to take place in March.Fury and Oleksandr Usyk are scheduled to fight in Riyadh on Feb. 17 to unify all of the major heavyweight boxing titles. Usyk holds the WBA, IBF and WBO belts.The 34-year-old Joshua looked sharp before Christmas when he stopped Otto Wallin with a fifth-round technical knockout. On the same card, Deontay Wilder lost to Joseph Parker, which scuppered talk of a March bout between Wilder and Joshua.Eddie Hearn, who is Joshua’s promoter, announced Friday night that the Ngannou fight is a “ done deal ” and that a press conference will be held in London on Jan. 15.The 37-...

South Korea says North Korea has conducted a new round of firing drills near the rivals’ disputed sea boundary

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

SEOUL, South Korea (AP) — South Korea says North Korea has conducted a new round of firing drills near the rivals’ disputed sea boundary.Source

South Dakota State seeking FCS title repeat, Montana in first championship game since ’09

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

FRISCO, Texas (AP) — Jimmy Rogers never dreamed of playing at South Dakota State, and certainly never anticipated becoming coach of the Jackrabbits. The kid from Arizona who was a standout linebacker and captain of their first playoff team in 2009, then defensive coordinator for their first national title last season, is now the first-year head coach as the top-seeded Jackrabbits (14-0) try to repeat in the Football Championship Subdivision. They take a 28-game winning streak into Sunday’s game against No. 2 seed Montana (13-1).“My reality becoming a dream means I wanted to do it at the highest level, and we’ve taken South Dakota State to the highest level,” Rogers said. “To be the head coach of it, I never envisioned that 18 years ago. … But I did envision winning national championships here.”Less than two weeks after the Jackrabbits beat Missouri Valley Conference rival North Dakota State last January to become champions in John Stiegelmeier’s 26th season as head...

Top-seeded Sabalenka beats Azarenka to set up a Brisbane final against Rybakina

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:57:33 GMT

BRISBANE, Australia (AP) — Aryna Sabalenka overpowered two-time champion Victoria Azarenka in a 6-2, 6-4 win Saturday that earned her a spot in the Brisbane International final against Elena Rybakina, a rematch of last year’s Australian Open championship decider.The win extended top-seeded Sabalenka’s streak to 15 on Australian soil, including a title run in Adelaide to start 2023 before her Grand Slam breakthrough at Melbourne Park and has given her momentum for the year’s first major.Her 4-6, 6-3, 6-4 win in the Australian Open final last January was the highlight of Sabalenka’s five wins over Rybakina in their seven career meetings.Sabalenka fired 10 aces and hit 35 winners against Azarenka, who won back-to-back Australian Open titles in 2012 and ’13 and is also a two-time champion in Brisbane.She broke her 34-year-old compatriot’s serve three times and saved all three break points she faced.Azarenka appeared to hurt her right knee in her last service game, but ...